From Locks to Ozzy: When Safety Needed a Four-Legged Upgrade
From Locks to Ozzy: When Safety Needed a Four Legged Upgrade
As I wrote about in another post, we have tried everything over the years to keep Noah safe. And when I say everything, I mean everything short of bubble wrapping him and installing a moat.
We started small. Locks. Barriers. Alarms.
Then we got smarter. GPS tracking devices.
Then Noah got smarter.
He figured out the locks. Even the high ones. He figured out how to remove GPS trackers no matter how clever we thought we were. At that point, it became very clear…we were not winning this game.
Noah has always been an elopement risk. Or as I like to call it, an escape artist with no warning system. He is semi non verbal, which makes it even more concerning because he will just leave. No announcement. No goodbye. Just gone.
The moment things really shifted was when we moved and Noah started leaving the house, walking the neighborhood, and visiting other people’s homes like he was on a casual social tour.
That is when we realized we needed something more.
Possibly something with fur.
What a Service Dog Actually Does
Before this, I thought a service dog was a very well behaved pet.
That is incorrect.
A true service dog is trained to perform specific tasks. These are not emotional support animals. These are working dogs.
Service dogs can:
Track individuals by scent
Respond to specific commands
Provide grounding and calming support
Be tethered to prevent wandering
Bark to alert when someone leaves a space
Accompany individuals in public settings
For Ozzy, the command was simple: “Find your boy.”
Ozzy was trained to track Noah, respond to commands, and alert us if Noah left the house. He could also be tethered to Noah in busy places so wandering was not an option.
And at 100 pounds, if Ozzy decided to sit down, Noah was not going anywhere.
Ozzy also sleeps in Noah’s room, follows him around the house, and somehow tolerates all forms of Noah’s version of affection without complaint. No growling. No snapping. Just quiet patience.
There is an understanding there that is hard to explain.
Ozzy knows he is responsible for Noah.
The Decision: Are We Really Doing This?
This was not an easy decision.
Financially, this was a major investment. Over $15,000, and closer to $20,000 once you include travel and in home training.
Yes. For one dog.
Naturally, I had questions.
Was it worth it? Could we afford it? Were we completely out of our minds?
I reached out to other families, joined Facebook groups, and asked a lot of questions. Every single person told me the same thing:
Fundraise.
So we did.
Yard sales
Lemonade stands
GoFundMe
Letters to friends and family
Social media posts and emails
We asked people to contribute to Noah’s ABLE account so funds could be used directly for the service dog. For those in Maryland, there were even potential tax benefits. Win win.
With the help of family and friends, we raised over $10,000.
Not easy. But possible.
The Process (Also Known as Patience Is Required)
This is not a quick process. Plan for at least a year.
After applying, there is a search for the right dog, not just any dog. While that is happening, you wait… and fundraise… and wait some more.
When Ozzy was ready, the trainer came to Maryland. We spent almost a full week training in our house, backyard, trails, and public places.
And then the real work started.
We had to keep up with training. Regular tracking practice. Reinforcing commands. Creating routines.
Because when Ozzy is working, he is working.
Not a family pet. Not a table scrap collector. Not a couch buddy.
He is a service dog.
We created schedules:
Feeding (Noah helps morning and night)
Walking (the girls help daily)
Training (everyone participates)
It became a full family effort.
Life with Ozzy
The transition was not perfect.
Noah did not like being tethered at all. Control is important to him, and this was not his favorite arrangement.
However, he loved playing hide and seek with Ozzy during tracking practice. He loved having Ozzy sleep in his room. He loved having a constant companion.
And then something unexpected happened.
Noah stopped eloping.
Within months, he stopped leaving the house, stopped wandering the neighborhood. It was not something we planned. It just happened.
Maybe Ozzy played a role. Maybe it was timing. Maybe it was both.
Either way, we were not complaining.
Now, Ozzy is part of Noah’s daily life. Noah puts a leash on him and walks him to the basement, out to the deck, or outside to sit.
Ozzy goes along with all of it.
Even when his face clearly says, “I did not sign up for this level of nonsense.”
The Hard Truths
A service dog is not a quick fix.
It does not replace supervision
It requires ongoing work
It is a long term commitment
Some days, it feels like Ozzy is the most responsible one in the house.
Actually, most days.
Advice for Families Considering a Service Dog
Before starting, ask yourself:
Do we have time for ongoing training?
Will the entire family help?
Can we stay consistent?
It may not be a good fit if there is limited time, limited resources, or hesitation around commitment.
What I wish I knew?
You are adding another responsibility. Another child, essentially.
Also… I wish I knew Noah was going to stop eloping. That would have been helpful information earlier.
Where to Start
If you are considering a service dog, here are reputable organizations:
Assistance Dogs International (ADI)
https://assistancedogsinternational.orgCanine Companions
https://canine.org4 Paws for Ability
https://4pawsforability.orgPaws With a Cause
https://pawswithacause.orgNEADS World Class Service Dogs
https://neads.org
Dulebohn Service Dogs (Where Ozzy Came From)
We ultimately chose Dulebohn Service Dogs.
https://dulebohnservicedogs.org
They are a smaller, more personalized program, which meant a lot to us. They took the time to understand Noah and our family instead of forcing a standard solution.
Ozzy came trained, prepared, and ready to work.
Which was good, because Noah was ready to test him immediately.
The process involved applications, conversations, and a waiting period. It takes time, but that is what ensures the right match.
Even after placement, the work continues. Training, routines, adjustments.
You are not just receiving a service dog.
You are gaining a full time working family member who still needs to be a dog.
Final Thoughts
We did not choose this lightly. By the time we got here, we had tried everything.
Ozzy was not an easy decision.
But he was the right one for our family.
If you are considering a service dog, do your research, ask questions, and connect with other families. You are not alone in this process.
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